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Human relationship management

57 Days before 日商簿記1級

I'm currently having a little trouble with my coworker... Actually, that gives me a big stress, because I'm much more sensitive than I look.
( >_< ;) ・・・ My heart is made of glass!

Human relationship is literally relative.
When I have a trouble in human relationship with somebody, no matter how much I might believe there's no fault on my side, still, the half of the trouble is my responsibility, because his or her troublesome reaction is REaction, which is a reflection against an action that is first triggered by me if that reaction is targeted at me.

Even when the reaction appears irrational to me, there still IS some reason for him/her to justify such an action.
After all, justice has never been absolute in human's history. Someone's justice could appear evil to others, and vice versa.

I’m such an emotional person that I can easily get irritated or hurt when some kind of trouble emerges in my human relationship with others, which makes me feel desperately angry or sad, which almost drives me to curse him or her in my heat for making me so unhappy.

But, recently, it seems I have grown up to be matured than before and came to think:
1) I must have done something first. So I have to admit it first.
2) Still such an irrational reaction by him / her is unbearable; but nobody can be perfect like God. How about me? I’ve never been a perfect person, either.
3) Other person’s shortcomings surely get me mad. But I have to remember that I also have shortcomings, which could be hurting someone else even at this point of time, while I’m unaware of it.
4) And I also have to remember that s/he also has many other good points, which might have helped me in the past, even while I’m unaware of it.

After giving consideration to those things above, I can make myself calm down because what first appeared to be irrational doesn’t seem to be as irrational as I initially thought.

I guess this kind of things would happen in my life many times, which I have to learn to be able to manage wisely; otherwise I cannot be happy myself.

Wow, I have so many things that I have yet to learn! 加油、加油、nn!
by nn_77 | 2007-04-13 18:55 | 仕事